Have you met the perfect guy, but those three elusive words have yet to leave his lips? It’s common to find “the one”, but still feel as if things are moving too slowly. It may not be due to a lack of romantic reciprocation, but there are ways of speeding up the process of his infatuation. These top 7 tips will help you to win a man's heart and to make him love you like nothing else!
7 Secrets to Win a Man’s Heart
A relationship is the joining of two lives to create something new, but that doesn’t mean that the two separate lives should cease to exist. You generally want three lives: yours, his, and “ours.” Let him live his life with his friends, his job, and his hobbies, and you should continue to live yours. This will make “our” life more meaningful when you spend time together. Plus, he will appreciate your trust and understanding.
Of course, this doesn’t mean putting up with deception or things that go against your values. However, it’s easy to get caught up in texting a thousand times a day even though your man may want some time alone. Be there for him even without being constantly present, and he will love you all the more for it.
Make Him Feel Like a Man
Gender roles are breaking from their tradition, but this doesn’t mean that you both can’t engage in the traditional aspects of masculinity. Feed your man’s “man-side” once in a while but having him help you, or by commenting on his strength. Do it subtly but clearly, and don’t be afraid of engaging your inner princess. If he feels like he’s providing for you, he will gain a sense of self-worth while you enjoy the process as well. You can start by commenting on how handsome his shirt is, or by saying you love his arms when he lifts something heavy. Men generally receive less appearance-based comments than women, and he is guaranteed to remember each and every one of these small yet significant comments.
While this might seem contradictory with the above suggestion, it’s important to subtly make things fresh while still keeping everything familiar. Your man may enjoy choosing the restaurant or movie, but you can pleasantly surprise him by making the choice yourself. Men often feel burdened choosing the right place for both people, and by making the choice yourself, he will feel relieved while also respecting your assertiveness. Plus, he will feel wanted since you chose a special activity or place for the night.
Find Your Scent
Beauty, both inside and out, is an integral part of romance. However, scents are the key to keeping your man’s longterm and short term attention. Think of the salty scent of the ocean and you will instantly be transported back to your best memories there. Maybe you smell a freshly baked cookie or maple syrup and are reminded of your childhood. Scents stay in the memory forever, and associating a scent with your good times is the key to making your man love you. Wear a perfume on romantic nights out so that he always gets in the mood. Find a subtle scent for your room that will always stay on his mind. This will make him feel more comfortable with you, and he will love you all the more for it.
Desire him and want him like nothing else. Of course there will be times when you’re not feeling romantic, and you don’t always have to be “on.” However, when the mood strikes, let him know that you’re craving his touch and attention. People sometimes assume that their partner knows about their desire for them, but unless you clearly show it, they may not realize it. You can show it by grabbing them for a kiss in the street, massaging them or asking for one, or by kissing their neck when they least expect it. Whispering in their ear is another fun and naughty thing to do. It doesn’t even have to be sexual, but a quick whisper in their ear is extremely intimate and shows a strong desire.
[Read: The Women Men Adore]
Enjoy Each Other’s Hobbies
Sharing your hobbies with him and experiencing his can help to bring your relationship to a new level. You will learn the inner workings of each other, and you both may find that you enjoy each other’s hobbies. This provides a lasting intimacy in an enjoyable way.
Cook His Favorite Meal
You can reach his heart through his stomach by creating his favorite meal at home. You don’t have to be an expert chef to do this, and you can even find the simplest recipe online to get started. Men love eating, and nothing is more exciting than having their favorite meal prepared by the woman they love.
In the end, you want to be yourself so that your man always loves you for who you are. Don’t try to be someone you think he’d love because that facade will get tiring real quick. Always stick to your gut and love will be found naturally.
These tips are designed to enhance your best personality traits so that your man always notices them. The activities and hints will bring you both closer together so that you can naturally find your true love. Avoid any temptation to change your personality for another person. However, if there are ever problems, make sure to reflect to ensure that you are being the best version of yourself that you can be.
[Read: The Women Men Adore]
To find out, ask yourself:
- Am I giving the love I expect to receive?
- Am I being treated with respect for what I do?
- Am I providing a stable yet exciting relationship for us both?
If you can answer “yes” to these questions, then your man will love you in no time!
[Read: The Women Men Adore]